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    Understanding Social Anxiety Disorder

    May 8, 2026

    Also known as “social phobia,” social anxiety disorder causes someone to intensely fear normal social interactions. This is more than shyness or a fear of public speaking—someone with social anxiety disorder excessively worries about being judged during everyday situations such as making eye contact with someone or talking to a stranger. They may be reluctant […]

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    Understanding Social Anxiety Disorder

    Also known as “social phobia,” social anxiety disorder causes someone to intensely fear normal social interactions. This is more than shyness or a fear of public speaking—someone with social anxiety disorder excessively worries about being judged during everyday situations such as making eye contact with someone or talking to a stranger. They may be reluctant to attend school, work, a date, or a party, and they also may feel anxious about eating in front of others, using public restrooms, or returning items to stores.

    Physical Signs of Social Anxiety Disorder

    In addition to feeling anxiety, embarrassment, fear, humiliation, or self-consciousness, someone with social anxiety disorder may experience:

    • Blushing
    • Difficulty catching their breath
    • Dizziness
    • Increased heart rate
    • Lightheadedness
    • Muscle tension
    • Nausea
    • Sweating
    • Trembling
    • Voice shakiness

    If someone with social anxiety disorder experiences physical signs like the ones listed above, they may also worry that others will notice that they appear anxious.

    How Is Social Anxiety Disorder Treated?

    Treatment for social anxiety disorder varies depending on factors such as symptom severity. With that said, many people with this type of anxiety benefit from attending counseling and taking medication such as a selective serotonin reuptake inhibitor (SSRI), a serotonin and norepinephrine reuptake inhibitor (SNRI), an anti-anxiety medication, or a beta blocker.

    The Provider to Choose for Anxiety Disorder Treatment

    If you’re worried that you have social anxiety disorder or another type of anxiety, you can rely on us for treatment. We regularly assist patients with managing anxiety, and we can do the same for you. Contact us today to request an appointment.

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    Understanding Agoraphobia

    May 7, 2026

    Agoraphobia is an anxiety disorder that causes someone to excessively worry about leaving an environment that they consider to be safe (in many cases, their home). Oftentimes, individuals with this type of anxiety are concerned that they won’t have help available to them when necessary, or that they won’t be able to escape a dangerous […]

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    Understanding Agoraphobia

    Agoraphobia is an anxiety disorder that causes someone to excessively worry about leaving an environment that they consider to be safe (in many cases, their home). Oftentimes, individuals with this type of anxiety are concerned that they won’t have help available to them when necessary, or that they won’t be able to escape a dangerous or embarrassing situation. Someone who has agoraphobia may fear:

    • Being in an enclosed space (e.g., an elevator or a movie theater)
    • Being in an open space (e.g., a bridge or a parking lot)
    • Standing in line
    • Using public transportation
    • Being in a crowd
    • Getting lost
    • Feeling dizzy
    • Fainting
    • Falling down
    • Not being able to access a bathroom when needed

    Individuals with agoraphobia often need friends and family members to accompany them to public places, which can make it difficult for them to work, run errands, and socialize. And in severe cases, agoraphobia can prevent someone from leaving their home entirely.

    How Is Agoraphobia Treated?

    Agoraphobia treatment varies from one person to another, and if a medical provider diagnoses you with this type of anxiety, they’ll recommend the approach that’s best suited to your needs. Many people with agoraphobia benefit from taking medication and attending counseling, where they can identify triggers and learn coping skills.

    Treating Agoraphobia & Other Anxiety Disorders

    Do you need help managing your anxiety? Contact us today. We have experience treating numerous types of anxiety—including agoraphobia—and we’ll be happy to tell you about our practice, answer your questions, and schedule your first therapy session.

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    Exploring Parenting Challenges by Age: Teenagers

    May 7, 2026

    The teenage years (ages 13 to 18) can present numerous challenges for parents, so if you’re struggling, just remember that you’re not alone. Below are some examples of issues that parents commonly face with their teens, as well as advice for how to handle these situations: Romantic relationships – It’s common for children to enter […]

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    Exploring Parenting Challenges by Age: Teenagers

    The teenage years (ages 13 to 18) can present numerous challenges for parents, so if you’re struggling, just remember that you’re not alone. Below are some examples of issues that parents commonly face with their teens, as well as advice for how to handle these situations:

    • Romantic relationships – It’s common for children to enter their first romantic relationships during their teen years. If your views clash—for example, if you don’t agree with them about who they’re dating, the clothes and makeup they’re wearing, when they need to be home, and whether they can drive—it can lead to arguments. While you should certainly make your expectations clear, try to be open-minded and nonjudgmental, since doing so will make your teen more likely to open up to you.
    • Substance use – Many people are offered alcohol and drugs for the first time when they’re teenagers, so it’s important that you proactively talk to your child about substance use. Provide them with clear rules, explain your reasoning, and discuss what the consequences will be for not following those rules. Also be sure to let them know that they can always use you as an excuse if they ever get offered alcohol or drugs and don’t know what to say.
    • Moodiness – Does your teen seem to be in a perpetually bad mood? There’s actually a science-backed explanation for it—our brains go through many changes during puberty, and the resulting lack of impulse control can make us more likely to express emotions without thinking about them logically beforehand. Keeping this in mind, as well as thinking back to your own teenage years, can help keep you from overreacting the next time your child cops an attitude.

    Receive Helpful Parenting Tips

    As was noted above, if the teenage years have made it difficult for you to manage your child’s behavior, you’re not alone. Many parents struggle with effective parenting when their children reach this age. One of the best things you can do is speak to a therapist who can offer advice that’s tailored to your specific situation. Contact us today to schedule a therapy session.

    Filed Under: Parenting, teens

    Nurturing Positive Relationships With Friends

    May 6, 2026

    The importance of having positive friendships in your life cannot be overstated. Healthy friendships can help you feel happier and more self-confident, reduce your stress levels, and prevent you from feeling lonely or isolated. When times are good, friends can help you celebrate. And when times are bad, they can help pick you up and […]

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    Nurturing Positive Relationships With Friends

    The importance of having positive friendships in your life cannot be overstated. Healthy friendships can help you feel happier and more self-confident, reduce your stress levels, and prevent you from feeling lonely or isolated. When times are good, friends can help you celebrate. And when times are bad, they can help pick you up and provide a kind shoulder to lean on.

    Unfortunately, for many adults, it can be tough to make new friends and even more difficult to ensure that those friendships enhance their lives. With that in mind, here are some tips for how to build healthy relationships with friends:

    • Be an active listener. Communication is key to a positive friendship, but many of us aren’t great at listening, which can leave our friends feeling ignored and unvalued. When talking with friends, make an effort to face them, focus on what they’re saying, and ask follow-up questions. You should also avoid interrupting them and zoning out as you plan what to say next.
    • Offer advice without judgment. At some point throughout the course of your relationship, your friend will likely come to you for help with a problem. While you should be honest about how you feel, you should also try to empathize with them and respect that that might have a different opinion.
    • Make time for each other. In today’s busy world, it can often be difficult to schedule time with friends, but getting together is crucial. If you live near each other, pencil in a weekly dinner or even a monthly coffee date. Or, if you live far apart, plan a time to talk on the phone or, better yet, videochat.

    Start Building Healthy Relationships With Friends

    If you struggle to maintain positive friendships, you’ve come to the right place. We have extensive experience helping patients nurture healthy relationships with friends, and we’d love to do the same for you. Contact us today to schedule a therapy session.

    Filed Under: friendship, relationships

    Exploring Parenting Challenges by Age: College-Aged Children

    May 6, 2026

    Has your child entered the college years (ages 18 to 22)? Congratulations! This is an exciting time, but it can also bring a whole new set of challenges for parents. Here are a few of the issues that parents commonly face during this stage: Long distance – If your child is going away to college, […]

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    Exploring Parenting Challenges by Age: College-Aged Children

    Has your child entered the college years (ages 18 to 22)? Congratulations! This is an exciting time, but it can also bring a whole new set of challenges for parents. Here are a few of the issues that parents commonly face during this stage:

    • Long distance – If your child is going away to college, you might find yourself missing them and worrying about them, especially if you haven’t spent a significant amount of time apart from them in the past. Try to keep yourself busy with hobbies and friends, and before you know it, your sadness will turn into pride and excitement.
    • College freedom vs. house rules – After your child has been at school all year, you’re probably thrilled to have them return home for the summer, but you might encounter some issues when they move back in. When they were on campus, they had much more freedom than they ever did growing up, so it might be hard for them to readjust. You can still communicate your expectations as far as chores, usage of the family car, and what to do if they’re planning to be home late, but try to be flexible and remember that they’re adults.
    • Academic stress – It’s not uncommon for kids who excelled throughout grade school to become overwhelmed once they enter college. College classes tend to be more difficult than high school courses, and students are also more tempted to go to parties and hang out with friends without their parents’ supervision. Don’t feel like you need to fix every problem—after all, your child needs to learn to figure out solutions on their own—but be sure to teach them time management and self-care practices, and watch out for signs of anxiety and depression.

    Learn More About Effective Parenting

    Would you like to receive parenting tips from a professional who specializes in managing children’s behavior? Contact us today. We’ll be happy to schedule a therapy session so that we can begin to discuss the challenges that you’re facing with your college-aged children.

    Filed Under: college, Parenting

    Exploring Parenting Challenges by Age: Adults

    May 5, 2026

    Parenting challenges don’t stop just because your child has become an adult. Below are some of the most common challenges that parents face once their child reaches adulthood (ages 22+): Differences in opinion – Even though your child is now an adult, they’ll always be your baby, and you may feel like you should continue […]

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    Exploring Parenting Challenges by Age: Adults

    Parenting challenges don’t stop just because your child has become an adult. Below are some of the most common challenges that parents face once their child reaches adulthood (ages 22+):

    • Differences in opinion – Even though your child is now an adult, they’ll always be your baby, and you may feel like you should continue sharing your opinion about all aspects of their life. Unfortunately, when parents continually criticize their child’s decisions regarding jobs, partners, children, and hobbies, it can lead to tension and sometimes even estrangement. Certain issues should still be addressed—for example, abuse and addiction—but otherwise, you may want to consider keeping your opinions to yourself and supporting their choices.
    • Childcare expectations – Many children assume that once they have their own kids, their parents will take on all of the babysitting responsibilities. If you’re on board with that, great! But if you don’t want to commit to regular childcare, kindly communicate that ahead of time to avoid resentment and scheduling conflicts later on.
    • Maintaining connection – This is a challenge commonly faced by parents whose children have moved to another city or state, or even to another country. If regular trips aren’t feasible, try to look for other ways to connect with your kids and grandkids. For instance, rather than simply talking on the phone, try videochatting. And if your grandkids have a hard time focusing on the call, you can incorporate a game like Pictionary or charades.

    Customized Parenting Tips for Your Adult Child

    Effectively parenting an adult child can be difficult, to say the least, but you’re not alone. If you’d like to speak with a therapist about the challenges you’re facing and receive personalized parenting tips, contact us today. We’ll gladly schedule a therapy session at a date and time that fits into your schedule.

    Filed Under: Parenting

    What Is Disenfranchised Grief?

    May 4, 2026

    Disenfranchised grief is a type of grief that isn’t accepted or acknowledged by society. (This makes sense, as Merriam-Webster defines “disenfranchised” as being “deprived of some right, privilege, or immunity.”) For example, people may tell the grieving person that they should be “over it” by now. Unfortunately, when someone’s grief isn’t validated by those around […]

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    What Is Disenfranchised Grief?

    Disenfranchised grief is a type of grief that isn’t accepted or acknowledged by society. (This makes sense, as Merriam-Webster defines “disenfranchised” as being “deprived of some right, privilege, or immunity.”) For example, people may tell the grieving person that they should be “over it” by now. Unfortunately, when someone’s grief isn’t validated by those around them, they may not get the support they need to cope with their loss, which can in turn prolong the grieving period.

    When Is Grief Disenfranchised?

    Disenfranchised grief can occur whenever someone’s grief doesn’t align with societal expectations. For instance, your grief may be disenfranchised if:

    • You’re grieving the loss of someone who wasn’t a close friend or immediate family member.
    • You regularly experience death as part of your job, and as such, your loved ones expect you to not take those losses so personally (this is common among doctors, nurses, and EMTs).
    • You’re grieving the loss of something other than life (e.g., a friendship or a job).
    • You’re not experiencing the emotions normally associated with grief (e.g., sadness and anger).
    • Your grief lasts longer than your loved ones expect it to.

    Discuss Your Grief With a Professional

    Disenfranchised grief can lead to serious consequences, such as depression, low self-esteem, withdrawal from social circles, and substance abuse. So, if you think you may be experiencing disenfranchised grief, it’s important that you speak to a therapist who specializes in healing from loss. Contact us today to schedule an appointment with one of the knowledgeable therapists at our practice.

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    The Link Between ADHD & Creativity

    May 3, 2026

    You’ve probably heard of attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (more commonly referred to as “ADHD”). This very common mental disorder often causes difficulty focusing, excessive movement, and poor impulse control. But did you know that ADHD may also increase creativity? Researchers are still working to determine whether there’s a definitive link between ADHD and creativity, but many studies […]

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    The Link Between ADHD & Creativity

    You’ve probably heard of attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (more commonly referred to as “ADHD”). This very common mental disorder often causes difficulty focusing, excessive movement, and poor impulse control. But did you know that ADHD may also increase creativity?

    Researchers are still working to determine whether there’s a definitive link between ADHD and creativity, but many studies suggest that individuals with ADHD tend to be more creative. There are a few possible explanations for the connection between ADHD and creativity:

    • Because people with ADHD often have trouble focusing, they may notice more about their surroundings, which can in turn lead to more original ideas.
    • Individuals with ADHD tend to be more impulsive and less likely to hold back their words and actions, so they’re also more likely to voice their ideas.
    • People with ADHD are often more likely to take risks, which is usually important when pursuing a career in a creative industry.

    Fostering Creativity in Children With ADHD

    If you have a child with ADHD, you may be wondering what you can do to encourage their creativity. Here are a few helpful tips:

    • Provide your child with opportunities to be creative. Try enrolling your child in an extracurricular activity that might interest them, such as music lessons or an art class.
    • Acknowledge your child’s creativity in a positive light. People with ADHD are often taught to control their impulses, so chances are good that your child might be intentionally stifling their creativity in an attempt to avoid getting in trouble. So, when you see them doing something creative, praise them for it.
    • Give them examples of creative individuals with ADHD. ADHD is often spoken about in a negative light, so it’s important to remind your child that many people with this disorder have been successful. For example, Emma Watson and Jim Carrey have both been open about their ADHD diagnoses.

    For More Information

    If you think you or your child might have attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder, contact us today. We specialize in treating patients with ADHD, and we’ll be happy to schedule a therapy session at the date and time of your choosing.

    Filed Under: adhd, creativity

    Narcissism vs. Self-Confidence

    May 2, 2026

    Many people throw around the term “narcissist” very casually, using it to describe an individual with high self-esteem rather than one who actually has narcissistic personality disorder. Below, we explain what narcissism is and how it differs from self-confidence. What Is Narcissism? Narcissistic personality disorder is a mental health condition characterized by an excessive need […]

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    Narcissism vs. Self-Confidence

    Many people throw around the term “narcissist” very casually, using it to describe an individual with high self-esteem rather than one who actually has narcissistic personality disorder. Below, we explain what narcissism is and how it differs from self-confidence.

    What Is Narcissism?

    Narcissistic personality disorder is a mental health condition characterized by an excessive need to feel important and impress other people. Narcissistic individuals often:

    • Have an inflated sense of self-worth
    • Believe that they’re superior to others
    • Feel that they’re entitled to be treated in a special way
    • Fantasize about having success, power, beauty, and intelligence
    • Envy other people’s success
    • Exploit their friends and family members
    • Lack empathy
    • Act like snobs, treating others in a condescending manner

    Interestingly, many people with narcissism internally doubt and criticize themselves, which can cause them to become preoccupied with being admired and knowing what others think about them.

    How Narcissism Differs From Self-Confidence

    It’s important to have a healthy sense of self-confidence, but when does that cross over into narcissism? Self-confident individuals reasonably believe in their own capabilities but also recognize that others have value, too. Narcissists, on the other hand, tend to excessively admire themselves and look at others with disdain.

    Learn More About Narcissistic Personality Disorder

    If you think you might be a narcissist—or if you have a loved one with narcissistic personality disorder—contact us today. We specialize in treating patients with narcissism, and we’d love the opportunity to help you overcome any struggles you might currently be experiencing.

    Filed Under: narcissism, self confidence

    What Is Journaling & How Can It Help You?

    May 1, 2026

    If you’ve been researching self-care practices, you may have come across something known as journaling. But what is journaling, exactly, and what can it do to improve your mental, emotional, and even physical health? Journaling, at its core, is the regular practice of writing down experiences, thoughts, and feelings. However, it can be adapted to […]

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    What Is Journaling & How Can It Help You?

    If you’ve been researching self-care practices, you may have come across something known as journaling. But what is journaling, exactly, and what can it do to improve your mental, emotional, and even physical health?

    Journaling, at its core, is the regular practice of writing down experiences, thoughts, and feelings. However, it can be adapted to whatever your specific needs or goals may be. For example, many people find that listing the people and things that they’re thankful for helps them become happier overall. Another popular approach is bullet journaling, which typically involves listing short- and long-term goals, daily tasks, reminders, and observations.

    The Many Benefits of Journaling

    Journaling offers numerous benefits for your mind and body. For instance, it can help you:

    • Process and reflect on your emotions
    • Enhance your mindfulness
    • Become more grateful
    • Develop a more positive mindset
    • Boost your creativity
    • Reduce your stress and anxiety levels
    • Improve your memory
    • Sleep better
    • Track the progress you’re making toward your goals

    If you’re just getting started with journaling, you’ll want to intentionally set aside time for it each day until it becomes part of your normal routine. You may also want to try various methods—for example, using a paper journal versus a digital journal—to find the one that works best for you.

    Learn More About the Benefits of Journaling

    If you’re interested in journaling and the benefits it can provide for you, contact us today. We’ll be happy to arrange an initial consultation at a date and time that fits into your schedule. We look forward to meeting with you, telling you more about our practice, and providing you with tips for how to incorporate journaling into your daily life.

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